30 Positive affirmations for anxiety

30 Positive affirmations for anxiety

30 affirmations for anxiety

You can do this

Anxiety can affect everyone from time to time. For months you might have felt strong and happy, and suddenly, anxiety, worry, and fear start to overwhelm you. Sound familiar? When this happens, I turn to positive affirmations for anxiety to calm myself down and manage the situation.

A multitude of situations could cause anxiety and the levels of anxiety can vary greatly from person to person. In some cases, anxiety can be debilitating and prevent you from living a full life.

When you repeat your affirmations, ideally out loud and as often as you can, you are sending a strong signal to your brain that this is the reality you affirm. As per the dictionary, affirm means to, state or declare a fact to be true. Eve Hogan explains this very well in her article Affirmations: Why they Work & And How to Use Them.

How will this work with anxiety?

When you choose positive thoughts, aka your affirmations, you are telling your brain to focus on these statements more than on the anxiety it is busy with. The more you believe in your affirmations, the more they will help and calm you down. Therefore, it is a good practice to pick only affirmations that ring true with you.

Here is a list of positive affirmations to get you started:

1. I am confident in myself and my abilities

2. Fear is only a feeling. It cannot hold me back

3. Today I will not stress over things I can’t control

4. I am proud of myself for even daring to try; many people won’t even do that.

5. This too shall pass, and I can stand this.

6. I am always improving

7. I have released all harmful tension from my mind and body

8. I can do this, and I will do this.

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9. I take steps towards my dreams

10. I have weathered many storms before. I can weather this as well.

11. I release my doubts and fears.

12. I am safe, protected and guided in this world.

13. I breathe in confidence and breathe out all fear.

14. I am strong

15. I am not alone

16. I am in control

17. I have everything that I need

18. I accept myself for who I am

19. I am doing the best that I can.

20. Feelings are just visitors and I let them go.

21. I am grounded

22. I am loved

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23. I am enough

24. I have the power to do the most incredible things

25. I am fine just the way I am.

26. I will transform my anxiety into positive, calming energy.

Positive energy affirmation

27. I choose to be proud of myself

28. I celebrate where I am and am thankful for where I am going.

29. I respect myself

30. I was created for greatness

How did these affirmations make you feel?

For me, using affirmations has always an immensely grounding effect. I want to yell “Heck yes!” after every single one of them. What are your favourite affirmations and how do they help you?
You are in control of your life. Don’t let anxiety rule you. You are stronger than that, even though you might not feel it right now. I am sending lots of positive vibrations your way right now. You got this.

Thanks for reading.

*Disclaimer: If you feel you cannot deal with your anxiety on your own, please do seek help. There are lots of possibilities out there that can help you on your way. You are not alone.

Surprising Life Lessons Learned

Surprising Life Lessons Learned

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This past weekend Vancouver Island was hit by an unusual amount of snow, with 8-10 cm of snow hitting Victoria and the Lower Mainland. Heavy windstorms in the evening and over night left about 74.000 households without power. Our house and family had no electricity for 36 hrs and this resulted in surprising life lessons learned.

10 centimeters of snow and windstorms in February might be normal circumstances if you come from anywhere else in Canada unless you live on the very southern part of the west coast of BC. We are simply not equipped for dealing with a lot of snow. Snow plows are clearing the roads, but it can take a while until they get to your road, especially if you live in rural areas. Our road stays snowy until either freezes or melts. It’s either deal with it or walk.

We rarely have larger power outages here, so we have not yet invested in a power generator for our house. However, a surface well only supplies our house with water and that does pose a problem during any outage. So when we saw the wind warning on Friday evening, we filled a few pots and containers with fresh water, just to be on the safe side. A few weeks ago, we also stashed 2 Gallons of water away in our garage. One never knows one might need it. 😉

And to no surprise, we awoke to a beautiful, white Saturday morning, without any power. Our wood stove kept us warm and we were able to cook our meals using our gas stove or the BBQ.

So what surprising life lessons did I learn from this outage?

1. If you are on a well you need a generator

No surprise there. Our house is generator ready, all we have to do is get the thing and that is it. We would be fine if we had one:

  • Freezer and fridge could be maintained and food would not go bad.
  • Well, cistern and the septic pump would be able to operate
  • A few electrical outlets would be available to charge your devices for staying in touch with the outer world
  • Some lights would work as well.

The only thing really missing would be warm water. But you can live without that for a while.

2. Electricity can be a distraction

36 hrs without electricity made me realize how addicted to having power at our fingertips we truly are. We listen to music, turn on the lights, have water and hot water on demand, keep our homes warm, heat up food in mere moments and store groceries either in the fridge or freezer for a long time. It also allows for all kinds of distractions: browsing the internet, watching TV or playing computer games. Don’t get me wrong, these are wonderful things to have, but I realized that none of those are genuinely fulfilling.

3. Family is key

During our electricity-withdrawal we had so much more time for each other: we played board games together, built a snowman, looked for animal prints in the snow, went for walks, read books, indulged in a candlelight dinner.

Yes, you can have all those things when you have power, but why is it then that we don’t take time for the things that truly matter?

4. Going slow is incredibly beneficial

During the power outage, I neither went riding nor made progress on this blog. I played a bit with my bullet journal, which was fun, but what I truly appreciated was to spend undistracted time with my family. No chores, no TV. And I even went to bed way earlier.

5. Don’t panic

Amidst all this glorifying of this power outage, I have to admit that I easily freak out about any outages. We had it warm and had enough drinking water, but not having access to running water for the toilet, washing hands or cooking always fills me with immense dread. Thankfully my husband calmed me down multiple times during the outage. Without him, I would have been so stressed.

When I told our family back home in Germany that we were OK – even though we were melting snow for water – I realized that we were fine. We had food and water and it was warm. Even more so, a friend who lives close-by offered us a place to recharge our batteries and energies. We were truly fine.

6. An opportunity for gratitude

This withdrawal from electricity made me reflect and allowed me to cherish the small moments of being together as a family while making the best of a situation. It made me appreciate the luxury of electricity, warm, running water and all the amenities it brings. I am also deeply grateful to all the men and women out there working to restore power, clearing the roads and helping people in need. In addition, I am incredibly thankful to my husband for being my rock, who did not let me worry more than I already did.

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Whenever the power is out, I feel like I need to hibernate. Like life is on hold. This is so silly. The moment I allowed myself to enjoy this, which I admittedly only achieved for a short period of time, I realized the beauty of being off the grid. I made progress on my dreams and goals and I learned these surprising life lessons. I did not create a new blog post, nor went out riding on the trails, but I gained a new level of understanding, reflection, and appreciation, that made me realize all over that I am already living my dreams.


Feeling overwhelmed? Why I need to heed my own advice right now.

Feeling overwhelmed? Why I need to heed my own advice right now.

I must admit I feel a little bit foolish right now. Here I am chasing my own dreams, getting ahead and thinking that things couldn’t work out any better. Until I sat at my chiropractor’s office and going over my test results that show clearly that I have been running at full speed without refueling for a bit too long. I am feeling overwhelmed. Big time. My body is telling me to slow down.

Why is everything a bit too much all of a sudden? Why am I feeling so overwhelmed? Am I not following my dreams with this blog, with going riding, with the dream job that I have, with starting to work out more, with daily affirmations, bullet journals and social media channels that want to be updated every day? Typing this all out it becomes obvious to me, doesn’t it? But I love all those things and they make me happy. As I said, I am feeling a bit foolish right now.

Maybe for the first time ever, I am extremely driven and determined, because I am following my dreams. I was and still am utterly surprised that this let to an impasse. Isn’t following your dreams the ultimate goal? Sigh, yes, but it needs to be sustainable. My mind tells me “blah blah” right now and all I want to do is poke my tongue at myself with every sentence I write. I should heed my own advice for a change and do all the things I write about. I usually do, but I clearly have not taken good care of myself in the last little while.

What to do when feeling overwhelmed?

So what would be my own advice? Taking a good look at my older posts about self-care, time management and all the bullet journal prompts, I came to the conclusion, that yes, they were all valid. So I decided to get to the root of the problem and assessed this whole mess. Where to start? Glad you asked.

Be gentle to yourself

Take a moment to breathe. Or a day, or two, or a week. Whatever you feel you need to catch your breath. Don’t judge yourself or how you are feeling. This feeling of overwhelm is there to protect you, as weird as it sounds. If you would not have noticed somehow, you could have developed a serious condition. We are experts at fooling ourselves and talking us into thinking that everything is fine when we should take it slow.

I was, and still am a little bit, convinced that everything was going fine, and I felt great. Honestly, this came as a shock to me. I’ll try not to feel defeated by this realization and rather use it as an impetus to tweak and grow.

Brain Dump

Let’s start with a Brain Dump, where you dump all your tasks or any stray thoughts onto a page. I used my bullet journal for this. *winkwink*. Get it all out there. Let it sit and just look at it. Overwhelming? Go figure.

You could compare this to a download of information from your brain onto a page. You become more calm, regain mental space and quieten your mind that tried to hold onto every thought and task, running like a hamster in it’s wheel.


Categorize all your tasks into the following categories (or any that make sense to you):

  • Necessity (don’t forget to add sleep and eat)
  • Wants
  • Nice to have
  • Health etc.

This practice will help you see a clear big picture. After putting everything on paper, it will become more evident what is important to you, what has to be accomplished and what could be postponed until some later time.

Strategize and cut back excess

Create, your daily schedule, because after all, a day has only 24 hrs. I followed Matt Ragland’s 15 Minute Block system. Fill in the hours with the necessities like work, sleep, eat, commute and family. Then add your wants as they are what make you happy: friends, hobbies, working out, ME TIME. Start with your current schedule and look for ways to optimize it, then run with it for a week. After a week of diligent tracking, you might have gained valuable insights on how to tweak things. Make sure you add breathing room or small pockets of me-time. Can you optimize your daily schedule or cut back to work on your dreams for one hour a day. You can achieve a lot in one hour per day. Check out my article about time management.

Get help

It is always a good idea to reach out to others and seek help. Simply acknowledging the fact that you are feeling overwhelmed is a good step in the right direction. Talk to your partner, a friend, a doctor or practitioner. You will know what is best for you. By noticing, acknowledging and working on the challenges that presents itself before us, we grow into an even better version of ourselves.


Keep focusing on the end goal, reducing stress and the feeling of overwhelm. Test out your new strategy or schedule and run with it for a week. If it doesn’t work, go back to the drawing board and change it. This needs to work for you and nobody else.

What I am doing about all of my mess?

I started to slow down. Then I decided to share this with you as it feels the most authentic to me. I would not be authentic if I couldn’t share that I too get overwhelmed sometimes. So finally, this past week, i heeded my own advice and assessed my own to-do list, daily tasks by using the brain dump method. Scaling back my own expectation was the biggest challenge for me. Now, I committed myself to the 15 Minute-block time-track challenge to assess the use of my time and see how I could optimize it. In addition, I prioritized going back to a regular Pilates routine and seeing my chiropractor to get back in shape. Even though I feel like I’d rather be an ostrich putting my head in the sand, I keep repeating my affirmation – you could also call them a mantra – “You can do this!” 

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And now?

Feeling overwhelmed is never a good feeling. However, that you notice what is going on is a huge step forward. You can only get better when you know that something is not going right. Give yourself a pat on the back for it. I mean it. Do it now. That’s nice.

Don’t forget to breathe and take it slow. As slow as you need. You will be able to get back on track!

12 Monthly Pages about Self-Care to include in your Bullet Journal

12 Monthly Pages about Self-Care to include in your Bullet Journal

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Are you overwhelmed by your daily to-do list and could use a break? Do you feel guilty about not feeling happy despite all that goes well in your life? You are not alone and you might not schedule enough “me-time” into your daily and weekly routine. Here are 12 monthly pages about self-care that you can include in your bullet journal. You can also download these FREE printables. 

Spending time with yourself is one of the most important things you can do for your mental and physical well being. Studies have shown that self-care or “me-time” not only reduces stress and depression, it also boosts creativity, productivity, happiness, gratitude, and empathy.

Even though you might feel you are taking time “out” of your schedule, you are actually putting energy back “into” your life.

Chances are, if you are using a bullet journal, you are already dedicating time to yourself. Great job. Keep at it.

Include these 12 pages ideas in your Bullet Journal as a “Me-Time” challenge:


Simple pleasures

Simple pleasures | Self-Care | Bujo

  • What songs do you turn on to boost your mood?
  • What movies never fail to put a smile on your face?
  • What friends always know how to make you feel better?
  • What items such as blankets or cozy socks can you always turn to?
  • What never fails to brighten your spirits?


Loving the age you are right now

Reasons to be happy about my age | Self-Care | Bujo

List all the reasons why you are happy to be the age you are right now.


Unexpected Beauty

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List all the times when you discovered unexpected beauty in a seemingly ordinary moment.



empowered | Self-Care | BuJo

Write “I am” statements that make you feel empowered.

  • I am enough.
  • I am creative.
  • I am a strong.
  • I am full of ideas and vision for my life.


Anything is possible

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If anything was possible, what would your life look like?


Happiness list

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List all the things that make you happy, or smile:

  • Smelling flowers
  • Seeing the sun breaking through the clouds
  • Watching my child sleep
  • A home-made meal that I receive praises for
  • Sipping tea with my best friend and discussing love, life and Bollywood movies


Practicing Gratitude

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There are probably very few of us who enjoy waiting in line for something. Think of all the lines you wait in and write about why you are happy to be waiting in them.


Thank You

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Thank your body for all it is capable of.


What makes you feel strong?

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List everything that makes you feel strong. If negative thoughts pop-into your mind, push them away and tell them they have no power over you.


This is so me!

This is so me | Self-Care | Bujo

What items & rituals make you feel most uniquely you? Here are a few ideas:

  • Wearing scarves
  • Your favourite belt
  • Your favourite jewelry


Adventures await me

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What adventures would you like to someday embark on?

For this page I used Japanese Keyboard-memos and layered them on the bottom of the page. Aren’t those cute?


What colour captures who you are?

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Fill this page with cut-outs, colours, and tapes of that colour.


Wow, that was a blast. By including these self-care practice pages into your bullet journal you will have gone onto a self-discovery journey by the end of the year. Each month, it might not seem like you put anything into your journal that you don’t already know, but putting words to your thoughts and feelings will let you get to know yourself even better, giving you inspirational prompts throughout the year and for the year ahead.

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12 Easy Ways to Reduce Stress this Fall

12 Easy Ways to Reduce Stress this Fall


The fall is usually a very hectic time: school is back in session; the workplace seems to be at its busiest time, traffic is worst between September and December (at least here in Victoria, BC) and before you know it is only a week until the winter holidays: presents need to be bought and wrapped, the house should have been decorated and you were supposed to enjoy the slower fall season with pumpkin spice, baking and cozying up with a blanket. Does this sound familiar?

Check out these 12 ways to reduce stress this fall and stay happy and healthy:

1. Get the right amount of sleep

This is what many people struggle with, but there is no way around it, the more quality sleep we get, the happier we are. According to the National Sleep Foundation, adults between ages 26 – 64 should get on average between 7-9 hrs of sleep per night. If you struggle with this as I do, try to set realistic guides on when to go to sleep. Challenge yourself every week to do better than last week and don’t be hard on yourself when you have not changed your habits in one week. It takes time.

2. Soak up the sun

As the days are getting shorter use any moment you can to spend outside. Sunlight triggers the brain to release serotonin, which is thought to help reduce stress, increase your mood and overall happiness.

3. Be active

You will likely not be surprised to see this point here. We all know that we should probably exercise more, but most of us struggle to incorporate time for working out into our hectic days. Try to think less exercise and more being active. Go for a quick walk during your lunch break. Park the car further away from work, run around with your children for 10 minutes before dinner is ready.

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4. Schedule regular “Me” time

Yes, you can do it. Assess how you spend your day and find a pocket of time that you can dedicate to yourself. Start small and make your way up to one hour per day. When you work until late, being it either for work, your own business, or for household chores, you might start to feel resentment for not having time for yourself. Dedicate at least 30 minutes before going to bed to yourself. This will help you unwind and make you more productive the next day. Check out this neat infographic on “me time” by happify.

5. Start a project you wanted to do for a long time

Is there a DIY project or any other project (around the house, or a trip you wanted to make) that wanted to do for a long time? Schedule time for it now! It feels good ticking off one item off your list, whether it’s a chore or something that you are interested in.

I found a really cool vest on Pinterest that I wanted to crochet. Mind you I had learned to crochet when I was in elementary school and never done it since, but so what. Once it’s completed, I’ll post a picture.

6. Incorporate healthy eating habits, but treat yourself once in a while

If you are just starting out with healthy eating habits, track what you eat for one or two weeks. You’ll be surprised by what you’ll find on your list. I always am, even though I have been very health conscious for years now. Once you have figured out who the culprits in your diet are, try to substitute them with something healthier. Go easy on yourself. People find it rarely easy to change everything about their diet and then stick to it. Take a little bit less sugar in your coffee or limit the number of sweets you eat or pop you drink. I am certainly not an expert enough to go into lengths about healthy eating, Lauren and Alex over at Avocadu.com do a way better job at it. Check them out.

7. Give gratitude

This is a big one for sure. Giving gratitude will solve so many things for you. My favourite activity is to note down – at least once a week, but ideally every evening before going to bed – the things that I am grateful for. This will shift your focus on the things that you already have in your life. Once your mind is shifted to positive, you will notice more things to be grateful for or things that make you smile. The more positive vibes you send out there, the more you will receive back.

Give thanks to people around you, they might need to hear it more than you think.

8. Surround yourself with things that make you feel good (decorate your home/space)

When I think of fall, I think of cozy scarves (I LOVE scarves and even wear them in the summer), fall clothing (which is by far my favourite), blankets, hot tea, a fire in the oven, and fall decorations. Indulge yourself and shop for an item or two, but don’t get into a shopping frenzy. Material goods won’t make you happy in the long run, but surrounding yourself with a few key items that will make you feel good, can do wonders.

9. Do something for others/Give back

Much as with giving gratitude, giving back shifts your focus to the positive while knowing you made a difference in somebody’s life. Help a friend in need, or offer to help them without them asking, volunteer with a local organization if your time permits, or if you are hard pressed for time, consider donating. Every dollar counts. Even if you can only spare $5, your local non-profit organization will use it to help someone in need. Whatever makes your heart sing when you think about all these possibilities, choose that one. If you can, become a monthly donor, if not, one-time donations are just as much appreciated.

10. Your happy soundtrack

I bet you know exactly what music makes you happy. Have you ever tried to compile a playlist of those favourites? If you are like me, you like a wide arrange of music, but there are just a few songs that you connect with on deep level. They make your heart sing, so to speak. Have this playlist on your phone and whenever you need a dose of happy, put it on. Works like a charm anytime, trust me.

11. De-clutter one area of your home per week

Organizing and de-cluttering are liberating for the soul and mind. But again, don’t overwhelm yourself by trying to do everything at once. Start one drawer at a time and see how your home is being transformed. Plus, when you go slow, there are more items to tick off your to-do list. And that’s a good feeling any day put that special check-mark on your item list.

12. Start a bullet journal

Have you also seen these wondrous things on Pinterest or on the internet in general? The beautiful journals people seem to create with ease and in no time? And they look like so much fun. Besides the therapeutic creation of the journals, the content you put into these journals will help you with a lot of the above-mentioned points:

      • You’ll get organized
      • By creating these journals, you will spend time on yourself
      • You can list the things that you are grateful for or went well. You’ll automatically focus on the positive.
      • You’ll start ticking things off your to-do list because you can put your to-dos in there.
      • You can track spending, eating habits, your mood, chores and so much more.


Stay tuned and find great resources here to help you create your own journal. It will be extra simple and fun!


Top 10 inspirational videos

Top 10 inspirational videos


For Mimi: thinking so much of you these days and of all our conversations about staying motivated, positive and following your dreams. This is for you.

Are you feeling stuck or low on energy with the fall rolling in? Are you sometimes plagued by the evil little being called DOUBT? Are people in your life telling you, you cannot do something?

Then I got a list of my top ten videos for you that will get you inspired and back on track.

It is ok to feel low at times, but use this period to rest and then get back up again and be stronger than before. Don’t let others or even yourself stand in your way to fulfilling your dreams and the life you were meant to live.

Sometimes all we need is a little push. So here you go: *push*

If you have seen them before, great. If you are working on living the best life you possibly can, it is worth watching them over and over again.

1. Shia LaBeouf “Just Do It”

2. Never give up on your dreams!!!

3. The Law of Attraction explained by Denzel Washington
Powerful testament by celebrities on the law of attraction and how it affected their lives.

4. Have the courage to follow your dreams

5. Leadership from a Dancing Guy
Never thought that a amateur video from the Sasquatch Music Festival could be so very enlightening!

6. A Pep Talk from Kid President to You

7. Follow your Dream

8. Misty Copeland  – Under Armour
Yes, this is advertising, but a very motivational and true story nonetheless. Love Misty Copeland and her determination to not let anything stand in her way of becoming a prima ballerina.

9. Don’t allow your Life to be Controlled by these Five Things

10. The Secret to You
Last but not least, my absolute favourite from the one and only Rhonda Byrne.